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4 Things You Should Know Before Dating The Person Who Hides Their Anxiety

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Anxiety is an emotional beast that can creep up on anyone, overshadowing them with fear, doubt, and angst.  Oftentimes those with anxiety do not wish to discuss it or openly acknowledge when they are feeling overwhelmed, they don’t enjoy saying that they’re not ok.  Their worst fear could even be to let others see them struggle.

Here are four things to know before dating the anxiety-hiding individual:

They’d rather deal with it alone – They’re not ones to typically enjoy receiving sympathy from others, simply because they acknowledge that others most likely have labeled them as a person who suffers a little too much from anxiety.  “The one who’s vulnerable.”  Anxiety is but one part of their person, but it is the part that they have to fight every time someone wants to get close to them.

They want to help you with your issues, instead of work on theirs – They highly empathetic because they’ve experienced a great deal of pain in their lives already.  They enjoy helping with literally any problem because of their high level of intuition and high-functioning cognitive abilities.  They are aware of everything.

They go out of their way to make people feel comfortable – Their awareness and perception allows them to pick up on vibes very easily.  In turn, they are able to hone in on how to make those around them happy and comfortable.  This can make them the life of the party because others instantly feel accepted; which in turn eases their anxiety.

They’re extremely strong – Anxiety will never be an acceptable excuse for not achieving or doing great things.  And this notion often leads them to think that they are invincible, only to end up in tears down the road.  Their anger is often misguided, so please do not take it personally if they blow up on you.  They’ve got love at their cores.

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