10 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Interested Anymore

As we are all well-aware, a relationship is a two-way street; there has to be a mutual and foundational understanding for the entire thing to work out. If this foundational mutuality does not exist, the relationship will likely deteriorate to a point where it is beyond repair.

Perhaps the most difficult scenario is when one person in the relationship is unable to make things work despite all their best efforts. Understandably, this person will often safeguard their emotions by unconsciously enabling denial. “Ah, it’s only temporary” or “He/She will come around.” This is not always the case, however, which is the point of this article.

We’ll discuss a number of signs – 10 to be exact – that may indicate that your partner isn’t interested anymore.

Here they are, in no particular order.

1. They Stop Asking You Out

If they stop asking you out, it’s a sign that something about you just didn’t light their fire. In most cases, they didn’t feel the attraction they needed to give them that push to pursue you. You can take your chances and ask them out instead. They might say yes just to get a free meal, but if they are not blowing up your phone trying to see you again, then you already know they are just not that attracted to you.

2. They Never Get Jealous

Everyone gets jealous at times, especially someone who is really interested in you. If the guy/girl you like doesn’t even bat an eye when you show up to a party with another guy/girl, he/she is not attracted to you. Stop trying to make them jealous, because they just doesn’t care.

3. They Seem To Change You...For The Worse

It’s not uncommon for someone on the receiving end of a disinterested person’s mischiefs to feel changed. As a result, you may find that you smile less, are more lethargic, and so on. A very unfortunate realization, indeed.

4. They Have Stopped Saying "I Love You"

A guy and a girl usually start saying "I love you" to each other once they move past the first phase of dating. If your relationship developed into the "I love you" stage a long time ago, there is no reason why they should suddenly feel averse to saying these three beautiful words to you. As cheesy as it sounds, if they stop saying them, it is a strong sign that that they are not as into you as they were before.

5. They Get Angry and Lose Their Cool without Any Reason

People lose their tempers for any number of reasons, including doing poorly at school, having rough times at work, feeling bullied, or going through family problems.

If your partner seems to be edgy all the time and loses his temper at non-issues, try to find out the reason for his anger. If you can't seem to pin-point any specific causes, his random flare-ups could simply mean that your partner is irritated by you and the relationship.

6. You Are The Last of Their Priority of The Day.

They would only respond to your text message or call you during midnight when they are about to dose off and you have zero communication line with them during the day. They have regarded you as the least important person in their life now.

7. Availability

They are too busy to set aside time to spend with you; They have other things going on. They dont want to make plans more than a day out. You may be more of a convenience or a distraction than relationship material.

8. Attention

Do you feel like your partner is always distracted when they talk to you? That they don’t pay attention to what you say, or they have their mind on other things? It may just be a hectic time at work, or he may have someone else on his mind. Watch out for constant phone or email checking or talking excessively about a co worker or someone else he recently met- this may give you a clue as to who is occupying his mind!

9. No sexy time

What’s that you say? Oh noes. No sex or a decreased sex life is probably one of the foremost indicators of a breakup on the horizon. Your partner has had a significant decrease in their lovey dovey ways and their affection seems to be focused on other areas, such as that tub of Ben and Jerry’s and their Sunday night dates with Dexter. While at times a decreased sex life can just be part of life with other things getting in your way like work, if everything else is otherwise seemingly normal, you should be having sex. A lot.

10. Humor-less

Your laughter is dead. In fact, you can’t remember the last time your significant other made you laugh or snort milk out of your nose. Humor plays an important part of a relationship, and this isn’t even about actual humorous things, but the way it was translated at the time to you. Those quirky mannerisms or idiosyncrasies that seemed to be extremely funny that had you rolling over gasping for air is no more. It’s just not plain fun being with your partner anymore, and that is the biggest crime of all, aside from actually finding your girlfriend with a penis in her mouth that’s not yours.

Sources:

http://guyspeed.com/sex-dating-relationship-advice-guide/?trackback=tsmclip

https://pairedlife.com/problems/Signs-that-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore-Signs-your-boyfriend-doesnt-want-to-be-with-you-any-longer

http://www.thetalko.com/13-clear-signs-hes-not-attracted-to-you-anymore/

https://www.powerofpositivity.com/21-signs-partner-isnt-interested-anymore/