To The Girl Who Completely Destroyed Him

By Brittany Christopoulos

Originally Published on readunwritten.com

To the girl that broke his heart,

I have a list of things I want to say to you, but the first thing I can think of is f*ck you.

How in the world could you be so heartless to break up with him the way you did? Do you even have a heart? Of course not. Do you even have a brain? You could have at least given him the luxury of closure, or break things off face to face.

While you left him to enjoy the waves of new men entering your life, and between your legs, I’ve been with him fixing the pieces of the man that you broke. While you’ve been on dates and rendezvous enjoying the single life, he’s been cooped up in his house refusing to leave the safety of his bed.

But of course, you couldn’t just leave him alone, could you? You just had to be friends with him. Do you know what that “friendship” did to him? Because I do, and it wasn’t pretty. With every time he saw you, you’d give him the sense of false hope that one day you would be together again, and did your best to rub your new life in his face yet tease him with your temptation. The ex-sex is another story.

You wanted to set him free but you couldn’t just let him go? You always had to come back when there’s been immense progress. You couldn’t stand the thought that he was doing better without you or the fact that you weren’t the center of his attention anymore. Unfortunately, you still were, because you nearly killed him and he was still in love with you finding it difficult to move on.

Due to the unfortunate circumstances, we are in, I know I’m going to have to see you one day and shake your hand. We’re bound to have a few awkward encounters full of mean looks and forced conversations, and I’m prepared to kill you with kindness. I won’t ever be rude to you unless you give me a reason to be.

I know you’re well aware I exist and have crept on my Instagram and probably Facebook page. And I bet it bothers you that I’m on private so you can’t get the “gold” to show your girlfriends in a group chat. And to be honest, I have too, and I genuinely believe you’re a pretty girl. But a pretty face is always destroyed by a hideous personality. And sadly my dear, you have that.

Even if you are the sweetest girl in the world, I will never like you based on what you did to him. I think you’re a horrible person and my opinion will never change. Could you not see how wonderful he is? I would never want to get rid of a man like him, not even for the attention of a million boys.

You took the confident, selfless man and gave him every reason under the sun to believe he is unworthy of love. Especially all the love he had for you. You took away his sunshine and put him through the most miserable year of his life and only came back in it to make it worse. He is unworthy of that treatment. Please leave him the hell alone. You’ve done enough damage.

Not only does the heartless act you performed make me hate you as a person, but it’s the lack of decency and respect. I’m actually speechless of how you could let a man like him go. What you didn’t want and throw away so effortlessly was what I’ve been praying to have my entire life. He is literally the dream of what most women want in a man, and any woman would be lucky to have him. And he’s truly not worthy for someone like you.

You’re selfish, manipulative, immature, toxic, demanding, high maintenance and ungrateful. And I hope that one day you’ll sit back and realize the man you missed out on, and I hope that all that new dick you wanted was well worth it. Because I can tell you you’ll never find anyone even comparable to him. And I’ll be damned if you ever try to get him back.

Sincerely,

The Loyal Girl Who’s Been By His Side

About The Author
Trending News Member| Journalist | College Graduate| Fill in TV Co-Host | Work 3 Jobs | Promoting positivity | It's a good thing she's loud and like to be heard. Brittany went to Seneca College for broadcast journalism, where she mastered the art of television and radio announcing. Aside from balancing a busy schedule she loves to volunteer, attend every boyband concert imaginable, and of course, write. Click the links for more!