7 Relationship Tricks That Make You Fall In Love Again

No matter how happy you are with your partner, all relationships require consistent work. If you devote some attention to relationship maintenance every day, you dramatically reduce the chances of conflict, boredom and ultimately heartbreak.

Here are 9 tricks that will help you do just that…

1. Keep Your Phones Off During Quality Time

Whether you’re having a romantic dinner date or catching up each other’s news, nothing ruins the mood like one of you taking a phone call or reading a text message. And it’s worse still if you actively choose to scroll through your Facebook feed or check your email!

Nurture your relationship by switching off your phone (or at least turning it to silent mode) and paying proper attention to your partner.

2. Go To Bed At The Same Time

It’s not always easy to synchronize bedtimes if you have different work schedules or family responsibilities, but it’s a surefire way to boost intimacy. This isn’t just about creating more opportunities for sex—it’s about feeling connected, relaxing together and having a chance to cuddle.

If you’ve noticed the spark waning in your relationship and you realize you’re not going to bed at the same time as your partner, ask yourself why.

3. Make Small, Thoughtful Gestures

You might think it’s obvious that small gestures help you keep love alive, but you may well underestimate the power of such actions.

There’s huge scope for loving, fun and compassionate behavior here—you might just send a text during the day telling your partner you’re thinking of them, give them a tender hug when they come home, do a chore you know they hate, or  pick out a little gift that suits their style. All of these gestures show you are thoughtful and caring.

4.Engage in lots of eye gazing.

New couples seem to do this naturally, but don’t drop this strong bonding behavior just because the relationship has progressed. This is one way to keep the romance alive and is especially powerful when making love.

5.  Teach your partner what you like. 

Likewise, making you happy will make him feel good. And research shows that the sexual pleasure of one partner increases the pleasure of the other partner.

6. Don’t Criticize Or Blame

Distance or discord can tempt you to be critical, or to accuse your partner of being primarily at fault. However, before you say something harsh, think about it for a moment. First, consider whether it really has to be said at all.

Secondly, if it does need to be said, ask yourself whether they might be a more tactful, empathic way to say it. For example, instead of saying “Why do you never do anything for the kids?!” say “I was wondering if we could sit down and talk about a better way to sort out who is responsible for different things we do with the kids.”

7. Give a gift for no reason

Nothing huge is needed, just a little something. Then again, if you do want to go big, who are we to stop you? Once more, this shows how much you care for them by being in your thoughts. We mentioned pizza before, so showing up with that favourite margherita will make you stand out in their eyes, mind, heart, you name it. There is no limit on how you can improve things with them just doing this once a day.

Sources: 

http://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/10-ways-make-your-relationship-last

http://www.thelawofattraction.com/11-relationship-tricks-make-fall-love/

https://www.powerofpositivity.com/improve-relationship-tips/